The Chronciles of Unchained Melody - Pt 10

Once again UM proves what UM doesn't know doesn't stop UM from trying to sound like the expert on ALL subjects and before you take UM's word on all this, check the links after the story:

Person 1: anyone knowthe derivation of new years eve
Unchained Melody: lemme look up the word derivation and i might tell ya....lol
Person 1: thinking it must be related somehow to christs birth but mebbe not
Person 2: No Person 1
Person 3: hate to sound simplistic - but maybe it's just because it's the beginning of a brand new year? lol
Unchained Melody: PERSON 1...thinkin its more related to the roman calendar we follow..and winter solstice PERSON 1
Person 1: lol but why is the new year related to that date susan,lol
Person 3: simplicity is beautiful
Person 1: Unchained Melody, that makes more sense,but wouldnt it have been earlier
Person 3: because - it's after the end of the old year, lol
Person 4: simple is best...
Person 1: the solstice is earlier
Unchained Melody: well....pagans keep a 13 month calendar PERSON 1....and yes...our new year is not the same as the roman calendar
Person 2: My daughter was born on new years day
Person 1: my year ended well, hopt it keeps getting better....yes and jewish new year is different too
Person 4: old year..new year...does a day make that much difference to anyone but the IRS?
Person 1: jewish is related to the harvest
Unchained Melody: there are two moons in one month of the roman calendar..which throws off the dates....just like the chinese nwe year is different....so is that of the pagan calendar
Person 1: so it makes me think the year of our lord statment makes it related to christs birth
Unchained Melody: year of our lord..referred to the king or queen PERSON 1..if i remember correctly...nothing religious such as what you are sayin..that i know of PERSON 1
Person 1: before crist and after crist
Unchained Melody: and what is BC and AC to you PERSON 1? cuz even THAT has different meanings to some
Person 1: i grew up with a jewish year and a christian year we even referred to it as the christian year
Unchained Melody: uhm...see.. BC is before Christ & AD is Anno Domini which means in the year of our Lord. ..google away and let me know what ya find PERSON 1
Person 1: yeah but we agree the lord in that is christ, right
Unchained Melody: .......for me..."LORD" refered to royalty...who reigned AFTER christ.....but hey..lets see what google says....

Pagan calendar information: www.paganspath.com/magik/lunarcal.htm and
www.pagan-paths.com/index.html

Love On Line - What A Trip

I'm not highlighting these "story" because it's got so many twist but check out the conversation with PERSON HURT, Friend, and MEAN PERSON.

PERSON HURT: sorry 3 i m s and crosseyed tired
Person 1: Person Q..Person 4 is only looking out for your best interest
PERSON HURT: we should all look out for eachother
Person Q: true Person 1...she is a sweetie
Person 1: i agree Person Hurt
Person 2: Indeed, PERSON HURT
PERSON HURT: look out! look out! look out ! !~ leader of the pack that was my part in the song when we did it on stage
Person 6: TY Person Q you too...you need to TC with those long hours of work
PERSON HURT: its all fun while it last Person Q ya know when you think its real but then ya fine out it was just a sick game
Person 2: You're not doing that tonight, are you Person 3?
Person Q: oooh no...sorry PERSON HURT
PERSON HURT: shaking head Person Q awe now my game begins this call s for a celebration Person Q i am surrounded by good people but every 10 yrs some slimball sneaks in
Person Q: well..just be careful Person Hurt
PERSON HURT:then i rally the troops . .taranntraaaaaaa Person Q tis not i who has to be careful
Person 4: Person Q is such* a nice person, it is amazing to believe she is real!
PERSON HURT: Person 4 i know she is tho
Person 4: Person Hurt...true
Person Q: ty Person Hurt***
Person 6: Ah Person 4 maybe it is because Person Q is so real
PERSON HURT: Friend what happen
Person 1: what happened Friend?
Person 3: Person Q is a sweetie still cannot believe she is still singel
Person 3: single too
Person 4: Person 6.... that* could be... but she is real and really* that way...all* the time...
Person 5: PERSON HURT TY
Person Q: Not single ..
Person 6: Person 4 that is exactly what I meant....I agree
Person 1: Person 3 that is because she isn't single
Person 7: dang Person Q
Person 4: Person 6... yes, she is genuine, authentic
Friend: i was scrolling back who u talking about Person Hurt?
Person 6: Person Q you are not single anymore?
Person 2: Is there a room announcement?
Person 3: lol Person Q taking the single sign off your back
PERSON HURT: lol Friend shes a no one just an attic kink
Person 6: Well congrats to you Person Q
Person 7: dont say it 2 soon
Friend: and i had a half dozen teens in the yard.. sounded like a boyfriend gf fight but my window is open and the moment the hollaring starting i jumped
Person 4: ::::gliding ovah to Person Q::::::
PERSON HURT: just watchout for gun fire Friend
Person 8: Person Q... you're not single?????? omg
Person 4: ok... Person Q.... ::::sitting on lil lavendar sofa:::::
Friend: idiots only wanted a pic with one of the displays n the yard it was all girls and ones mom
Person 4: pattin cushion next to me Person Q??
Friend: so wasnt a problem but for the moment i wasnt sure
Person Q: sitting down next to Femmi
Person 3: spill it Person Q
Person 4: takin Person Q's hand
Person 2: Bet NOT, Friend!
Person 1: what flavor Person 7
PERSON HURT: Person 4 is that the sin couch ? what the lavender couch for?
Person 4: lookin into Person Q's eyes and then into the room
Person 4: Person Q?
Person Q: Person 4?
Person 4: Person Q and Person 4
Person 2: C'mon you two!!!!
Person Q: true Person 4 (((Person 4& Person Q)))
Friend: i live in a small subdivision quiet no trouble and then just recently there has been odd things going on and neighbors garage broken in to
Person 3: well congrats Person Q and Person 4
Person 6: Ah well I am very happy for both of you
Person 4: Person 3....WHAT???????????????
Person 2: Bummer, Friend...Hope it calms down for you.
Person Q: ty Person 3
Person 8: sitting in a tree... k-i-s-s-i-n-g... first comes love~~~ then comes marriage~~~ then comes~~~~????
Person Q: lolol Person 8
PERSON HURT: walking over to end of bar near lavender couch turning my good ear to that side
Person Q: lol Person Hurt
Person 4: Then comes..payin the bills, goin to work, cleanin the house...scrubbin the toilets etc
PERSON HURT: Person Q did you just picture that
Person 2: Congrats to Person 4 and Person Q!***
Friend: lot of teens walking around and i am corner lot so they cut across the yard to save those 30 extra steps and u dont want to give them hell .. dont want to be cleaning eggs off my windows some morning
Person Q: yes ty Person 3**** lmao Person 4
Person 2: Ok, Person Q...go to bed!
Friend: one bad thing about living alone 3/4ths of the year
Person 4: Merci beoucoup
PERSON HURT: Person Q i tried to be inconspicuous too
Person Q: lol
Person 6: Certainly some are well worth celebrating.....
Person 4: Person 3... she is on my webcam and said that just before you typed it...LOL ...that she should go to bed
Person 4: Hi PERSON 9
Person Q: I hope you all have a great night and wonderful tomorrow...bye for now...take good care of Person 4
Person 9: lol...always a way in Person Hurt
Person 3: niters Person Q
Person 10: gn Person Qoooooo
Person 2: Yeah, that CAN be a problem, Friend. I have great neighbors, though. Helps alot.
Friend: i need either a big dog or a girl friend.. hmmm wondering which would be easier to house train
Person 8: ((((((*****Person Q & Person 4*****)))))))) love you both!
Person 1: Person 4 can sit with me Person Q
Person 4: nite {{{{{{{{{{{{Person Q}}}}}}}}}}}\
Person Q: nite nite***************** ((((""))))))) waving
Person 6: Nite Person Q and congrats again
Person 4: Love you too Water****************
Person Q: ty Water*** love you too
Person 2: Person Q****
Person 4: Person 1, that is very sweet!
Person Q: ty all******************** nite
Person 6: Ahhhhh but love can be grand
PERSON HURT: i wish these people that just hang in here to haunt people would go to a room just for them and let woman in here who want to have a conversation
Person 2: WTG, PERSON HURT!!!
Person 6: this is nice love is in the air....and a good room date
PERSON HURT: go get a life and stop hawking us out
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, don't flatter yourself.
Friend: hello Person 9... getting use to say hi to u.. a nice change i am grateful for
Person 9: yes it is Friend
PERSON HURT: why not Mean Person you certainly did until you got what you wanted
Friend: Person 1 i am sure they will just dont know dates
Person 7: well goin thru a lot of changes but good
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, what you got is not what I wanted.
Person 1: Friend...luckylady that comes in her got her granddaughter day before yesterday
PERSON HURT: smiling c mon torro aqui
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, you are toxic, I am not going near you.
Person 9: lol...Person Hurt
PERSON HURT: welli got y adown from your perch Kathy
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, one thing you are good at is bullshitting.
PERSON HURT: Mean Person dont even start your reputation is already out there
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, as is yours. I am willing to bet I have a better rep than you ever will.
PERSON HURT: 300 woman my ass just cause you gf doesnt work and puts up with your sex games geeshhhhhh what a price to pay
MEAN PERSON: One more thing Person Hurt, you suck at phone sex.
Person 9: ohoh
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, she isn't complaining.
Person 11: Person Hurt and Mean Person please take it out of the room or
Person 11: I will have to click you both and I really would rather not have to
Friend: oh forfckssake what the hell is this all about
PERSON HURT: Mean Person i know it was my first time you lead the way i was just wondering what was happening when you were cumming
MEAN PERSON: Person 11, I am going to block her.
MEAN PERSON: The room seems cleaner already.
PERSON HURT: Mean Person you started it
Friend: Person Hurt did u all do the deed
PERSON HURT: Friend no she prey son lonly woman in here and this is one she s not gonna get away with it
MEAN PERSON: Mosxie, how would you know, you were in your bathroom getting off.
Person 4: goooooooooooood cook ...yet I still* burn things sometimes... get distracted
Friend: damn and i was hoping for some video on utube
PERSON HURT: Mean Person i made that up so i could match all the filthy story s you wrote and sent me
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, that is your style. Those were written for you.
PERSON HURT: Mean Person block me please dont come down from the attic attack me and expect me to back down
Friend: well we WERE enjoying the evening .. thx Mean Person
Person 9: and here I thought Mean Person blocked Person Hurt....guess my eyes are playin tricks on me
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, you do not scare me, not in the least.
Friend: its aol PERSON 9 its in retrograde
PERSON HURT: yeah right please i beg of you dont talk to me
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, thank you for the bare chested pic you sent to me. Obviously, it sucked.
Person 9: oh for sure Person 7
Person 11: Sorry Mean Person and Person Hurt you have the big red X now
PERSON HURT: wow Mean Person for your info that topless sailing picture was on my profile for weeks ask Pammie
Friend: Mean Person why bring that crap in here
PERSON HURT: i wasnt ashamed of that
Person 9: Okay, that's it.I wanna know if Mean Person sent back the bare chested pic of Person Hurt........did she Person Hurt?
Friend: u wanted the fight.. u got it... now end it
Person 10: what have i missed?
PERSON HURT: everyone here knows i do naked sailing nude bathing go away Mean Person please
Person 4: ignoring it ::::but secretly enjoying reading it::::
MEAN PERSON: Friend, sorry but I have to block you. In all actuality, I am walking in your footsteps.
PERSON HURT: Person 4 lol i know
Person 12: Person 4....same here
Person 1: singing ....tis the season to be jolly....falalala lalala
Friend: Mean Person i have never said a thing out of line to u
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, no wonder the fish are dying.
Friend: your issue is with Person Rude not me
MEAN PERSON: Friend, don't get into this.
MEAN PERSON: Friend, I had my say with Girl.
Person 9: guessin Mean Person's "ignore" don't really work....that 2 for 2
PERSON HURT: Mean Person so sad but i m so glad you told me things about people in this room that were all lies
Friend: dont worry not wasting my font on u after your last display when u decided u HAD to TRY to bring me in on it
PERSON HURT: Mean Person i m click n you
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, you had a lot to say too.
PERSON HURT: clicked
Person 4: welcome to the Let all your dirty laundry hang out Hour
Person 6: everyone got their boots on?
Friend: u both did.... now kiss and make up
PERSON HURT: l o l Friend i apologize to my sister roomies here but i know you would expect nothing less from PERSON HURT!!!
Friend: Person Hurt its your chit... not mine.. but i am still pissed there was no sex video to share
Friend: taking u off my xmas gift list
Person 9: lol...Friend
PERSON HURT: Friend you killing me here griming ear to ear
Friend: i dont like being dragged into other peoples chit... but i do enjoy watching it sometimes just come in here and spam the link to the room u are going to fight in and those who want to see can follow
PERSON HURT: Friend i d of sucked in it anyway according to the beast
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, your claim to fame is that you are a bs atist.
Friend: i get dragged into to much chit as it is because i am friends with Person Rude
PERSON HURT i dont want side to be taking here i just had to defend myself
MEAN PERSON: Friend, as long as it works for you.
Person 9: ::gettin my popcorn::
MEAN PERSON: Person Hurt, it is obvious you are a victime here. NOT!!!
and kind
Friend: and the more i come here the more i see what i dont want to act like when i am pushing 60 and besides if someone pisses me off the odds are in my favor that they will die and leave the room before me lol i will be sure to turn the lights out when i leave
Person 13: I started coming to this room because after a break up I figured there would be no drama here and nobody would hit on me
PERSON HURT: the pic on my profile is recent and all i have done or say i have done is fact and i can back any of it up PERSON 9 after camp i promised a few i d put that sailing photo on frankly im surprised i was tossed but no one complained Person 3 i l let you know when i put it up as soon as aol get done tossn out our pictures dec31

The Chronicles of Unchained Melody - Pt 9

I want to thank "Person 3" for the input to do this blog. Without this assistance, the following example of "know it allness" would not be possible. Notice that when UM stops talking, the people have a wonderful converation and their experiences are not belittled by UM trying to appear to have done every thing anyone else has ever done or to know every thing there is to know:

Unchained Melody: tripped over my last nerve earlier...but ;eh...over it..lol
Person 1: actually I am smokin a turkey on the mesquite today
Person 2: OMG, I have to leave to cook,lol[]
Unchained Melody: nice Person 2...i miss mequite..i know ya can buy it..but i liked gettin it from the desert n campin n such
Person 1: Unchained Melody I adore the flavor of any meats cooked open charcoals or open fires.... maybe it appeals to my primitive nature
Unchained Melody: me too Person 2..but i really like it when i'm campin the most primitive nature....heels....uh h uh...keep talkin Person 2..lol
Person 3: I like the flavor of pecan smoke BUT it will be hard to get in CA
Person 4: I have never had that, Person 3
Unchained Melody: pecan is very expensive in most states..
Person 3: pecan trees are self pruning I pick up fallen limbs in TX for bbq
Person 1: Unchained Melody... did you know that back in the 60's my desire to find and observe people who lives in primitive circumstances sent me to new Guinea... not once but twice
Person 4: My relatives in OK had pecan trees lining their long driveway...yum
Unchained Melody: dead fall is the best to get from pecan groves in kansas..we'd try to get it for roastin turkeys at t-givin when i was a kid
Person 4: Wow...what a great experience, Person 2
Person 1: I have quite a collection of primitive artifacts that I traded on my treks. not stuff made to sell or trade.....
Unchained Melody: good for you Person 2.....follow the dream
Person 3: I am very primative you can observe me Person 2
Unchained Melody: my drive to learn more about primitive and other culture influences has taken me nation wide
Person 1: LOL Person 3.... you don't know primitive till you see me today
Unchained Melody: i've spent time with several different cultures....native and otherwise...been a great life
Person 3: Person 2 you should come over here for a family dinner and observe texans at the dinner table that is primative
Person 1: Unchained Melody we can not find a primitive lifestyle in this country. No one is allowed to live with nature finding harmony in their life
Person 5: Person 3 making me collards tomorrow
Unchained Melody: thats not quite true Person 2...i know several families in the high deserts that live and maintain life off the grid..have for years i visit when i can.....and they always amaze me
Person 1: our native Americans were forced out of their 'green' lifestyle.....
Person 3: you said in the room that was the worst recipe you'd ever seen I hope you found a better one
Unchained Melody: so do a few i know in mid canadasome have been..but not all..i am fortunate to know those few...who live off the grid
Person 1: i have so much respect for those who can sustain themselves in nature without damaging the ecology
Person 3: I used to know a hermit down in Mariposa county
Unchained Melody: it is wonderful......Person 2....they stay socially isolated on purpose
Person 3: he lived along the banks of the merced river
Person 4: In the 60's, I got all into herbs and homesteading etc... thought it would be great to 'live off the land' in those daze of backpacking....now...my recliner and Triple A for car is good
Unchained Melody: their homes are straw bale and very intriguing to watch them build..i loved the work parties i got to participate in..one guy built his home from old tires.n tin cans were his insulation..its amazign what theyv'e done
Person 1: I would love to live in a primitive situation.... as long as they had taco Bell
Person 4: I have a flat tire on my car.... It is in my garage...
Unchained Melody: ha ha Person 2...i go primitive a LOT....whenever and wherever i am able
Person 4: I'll call triple A....soon I don't feel like changing it myself.
Person 1: you change flat tires Person 4?????
Person 4: Sure,
Unchained Melody: Person 2...you don't?
Person 3: I am lazy every day I don't single out a day
Person 1: sheesh woman. just go stand in the street next to the deflated tire in a tight skirt and low cut sweater looking helpless
Person 4: It is just annoying to have a flat tire.
Person 1: hell no Unchained Melody
Unchained Melody: o'tay!..but CAN ya change one Person 2..thats what i wanna know..if'n ya hadda?
Person 4: Person 2..............yeah.... someone always* comes along to help... LOL... but I have done it myself too....and now have Triple A
Person 1: Unchained Melody if I HAD to yes... and I would tighten every lug so tight... in stages of course....
Person 4: People never think I can do it myself...LOL
Person 1: yes I know HOW but have I ever HAD to? :::::::::::a LOUD reszounding NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO:::::::::::
Unchained Melody: ah k...good Person 2....THATS important to know how
Person 4: and, frankly, I don't wanna do it myself any more!
Person 3: LOL those boobs of Person 2 supply enough adrenaline to make changing a tire easy
Person 1: hell I have never even pumped gas ONE single time
Person 4: no way Person 1
Person 1: yes way
Person 4: There are only self service pumps he
Person 1: I swear to you NEVER here too Person 4. so I go in and ask the cashier..... is there someone whop can come show me how to do this???
Person 4: Ever shoveled snow?
Person 1: someone always volunteers and I busy myself cleaning the windows and ashtray
Person 3: LOL I pump gas for older people and pretty women all the time
Person 1: i hate the smell of gas sure don't want that odor on my hands caca
Person 4: do you Person 3....LOL... I never even thought of having someone do it for me ..how dumb am I?
Person 3: I just do it
Person 2: Person 4... must I send you the revised femme manual? tsask tsk awww how sweet is that Person 3?
Person 3: please do Person 2 before she lets Person Q ruin her
Person 4: Person 2... I have had to take care of myself and others so much of my life... I just don't think about asking for help... I must learn to.
Person 4: LOL Person 3
Person 1: I hear ya Person 4..... I have always been that place where the proverbial buck STOPS
but there are somethings that I have always treated myself to
Person 4: Yup I am tired of it though
Person 1: Person 3...... how could Person Q possibly ruin anyone?
Person 4: She couldn't , Person 2
Person 3: LOL all butches can ruin a good femme
Person 1: i am sure that if Person 4 and Person Q are an item it is because they both feel happy and lucky to have one another and that's a sweet blessing that I am always happy to see
Person 4: Honestly, and pardon for the saccharine sound of this, but Person Q is the nicest, most genuine person I have ever had the pleasure to meet.
Person 1: Person 4.... I have always liked her myself. Not only is she a sweetheart but she's a cutie too eh?
Person 3: now that is the end of my sweet and gentle side
Person 4: and all her long time friends love her as much as everyone online does.

The Chronicles of Unchained Melody - Pt 8

As you might remember from previous Chronicle entries, UM considers itself "righteous, spiritually elite, and always RIGHT". So here's an example of that behavior (rofl) And, the so called attack mentioned here was set up by UM so she could get attention according to the very person she had do the "rough up" - there was never a real threat, it was an act so UM could accuse someone else of doing something they didn't do. Her act fell apart when the "rough up" person spoke out and told the truth. The chat was very nice until UM decided to inject hate, lies, and downright mean behavior. and this "incident" happened over 2 yrs ago so if the "authorities" were going to do something, it would have been done by now (which is the funny part - cos the "authorities" know the truth)

Unchained Melody: got some starbucks beans....strong stuff
Person A Good morning
Unchained Melody: mornin mary
Person A How are you Unchained Melody
Person 1: strong is the only way to have it
Unchained Melody: doin well Person A..tyfa.....
Person A Is Irish up yet
Unchained Melody: well this coffee..i can feel it HIT...lol...whoa.its THAT strong ...: i don't think so Person A
Person 1: lol Person A
Hello Person Z....if you are watching
Person A hello Person Z
Unchained Melody: we dont see much of Person 2...till she wants to speak..she just sits in here 24/7
Person 1: gm Peroon A ntmu
Person A hi Person 1 same here
Unchained Melody: some of the names you see in here are just here to log the room for gossip Peron A..don't expect a reply
Person 2: hello Person A
Unchained Melody: lol..me too..i was hopin to sleep in mornin
Person 2: gm
Unchained Melody Person A I know that I see some of them always in the room but rarely speaking
Person A I'm not usually here this early how much gossip can you get from a chat room lol
Person 1: lol Person A and.....who would you tell lol
Unchained Melody: well what they can't GET..the invent Person A...best to keep those names on ignore
Person 2: I haven't slept yet but I took a nap this afternoon
Unchained Melody: dang ...when ya gonna sack out?
Person 2: I am up late cause this is th eonly time I can chat with my cousins in the Philippines, it is daylight there
Unchained Melody: and mary....the evil behind this game of gossip is wide spread..it does a lot of harm to many.....don't be fooled by how "NICE" they pretend to be..no one is safe YO CLONE IDIOT:LOG THAT!
Person A Unchained Melody: sounds like you've had some bad experiences
Unchained Melody: ::chucklin:::
Person 3: i hear that Unchained Melody
Unchained Melody: you have no idea Person A...due to this jerk...i was physically assaulted at a meet....because of their lies and games so yeah....i've had a few BAD experiences at the hands of these abusers. still prayin for their sorry azzes
Person 2: physically assaulted at what meet Unchained Melody?
Person A wow......i don't know what to say ..that is wild-- women in the room phsyically attacked you at a meet up
Person 1: I have been having more and more trouble sleeping due to arthritis in my neck and shoulders
Person 3: awww sorry to hear that Unchained Melody
Unchained Melody: an atlanta meet ...there are several witnesses as to what went down...and WHO is involved in this game has been NAMED....there are a lot of people who trusted this reg......:they will be ticked no end when they discover the truth
Person Q: wait UM.. the person who held u against the wall with a pool cue admitted in the room with you there that you set the whole thing up and there was never a real attack
Person 2: I have heard arthritis how do you get them....I heard so many women here have them
Unchained Melody: :shrug:no worries Person 2....:just another thing to add to the charges once this busts wide open with authorities...Person Q.. this is MY version so butt out

The Chronicles of Unchained Melody - Pt 7

Once again UM proves UM's lack of knowledge and need to be the center of ALL attention and that there isn't a subject UM doesn't think UM's an expert on (roflmao)

Person 1: has anybody heard of a website/link called Rhoos?
Person 2: i keep getting invitations to join that Rhoos
Person 3: I think thats a dating website not sure
Person 4 i thought it was a legitable dating site
Person 1: I've had invitations to join - have deleted of course - but they sure are annoyingPerson 1: some people have said they received invitations from me - NOT SO
Person 5: oh- so you were gonna sign up for it?
Person 3 yes i was but im on another site that is much better
Person 5: i'll give you a better one
Person 3 that is free Person 5: its called
Person 5: lesbianpersonalsonline.com
Person 5: http://www.lesbianpersonalsonline.com/
Unchained Melody: ..theres a DATING SITE INVITE;that if ya open it and click on the link..it AUTOMATiCALLY SENDS OUT INVITES TO YOUR ENTIRE BUDDY LIST: DO NOT OPEN THOSE:DELETE THEM
Person 6 tell us the name of the virus site
Person 3 is it free
Person 7: has a better one
Person 5: NOTHING GOOD IS FREE REMEMBER THAT
Person 4: whats the better one Person 5
Person 1: Unchained Melody- I will re-iterate - I delete - I ignore, I click, I block
Person 4: what is the name of the bad site
Person 1: it's not a virus - it's just very annoying
Person 4: but what is its name
Unchained Melody: its been goin around the last few days..and people are NOT doin it on PURPOSE..if they click the link.it does it automatically...someone else may have sent you one that opened automatically into email addy book.like a worm;virus
Person 8: i keep getting invites for it
Unchained Melody: its best to block it at the filter....type in the words ya see in the subject line
Person 4: i still get stuff
Person 8: i dont open downloads or forwards
Unchained Melody: be aware.:FYI: that if you leave your sound on or have your camera on while in a chat you CAN be HACKED easier...
Person 10: who would want to hack me???????
Person 1: if you leave anything on - there's a better chance of being hacked, lol
Unchained Melody: yup...I keep my sound off in here..and i never leave camera going....these idiots in here hack our puters..several of us have had to buy new puters due to the games people play in this chat
Person 8: so what is jhoos is it real?
Unchained Melody: Person 8...do not open it....delete it..it will send emails out to everyone on your buddylist without your consent..opening the email IS consent good idea Person 8.....keep the sound off and lock down your IMs...allow only those you know to be trusted into IMs in this chat....
Person 11: now i just got a very expensive printer and digital camera xmas dont know how to do that either
Unchained Melody: its not that hard Person 11....just put in the disk..the puter does the work
Person 4: do the invites that come from that site, say its from that site
Unchained Melody: ....yup...and will send out more invites if ya open them or click the link
Person 11: i never bought one becasue i hate following directions and my own camera works great but my son said it is time to move ahead, lol

The Chronicles of Unchained Melody - Pt 6

Now this is a prime example of UM's know it all routine so enjoy the reading

Person Z: Hey......Whats it mean when a morning dove is on your porch ?/ peace or love or what
Unchained Melody ..there are several totem meaning of morning doves peace;love;hope..charity..also they signify the presence of saints...and a few other meanings
Person Z: well it sat there , then looked around, & flew away.....never seen one on the porch alone./is that a good omen
Unchained Melody i'd say so .*enjoy her/his presence and feel blessed .. bird inside the house isn't usually deemed a good omen..just fyi..
Person Y: seen a big owl the other day what does that mean?
Unchained Melody nice ..owl is messenger of death to SOME Tribe and cultures.CAN mean someone is passing from your presence....and for pagans..usually teaches the lesson that its time to let go of the past there are varied meanings in most cultures that celebrate the totem teachings .. that does NOT mean someone might be dying..it usually means..prepare for the future with the awareness of the past...and do not slay your future from the past.
Person Y: well I believe that I seen it about a month before my father passed away
Unchained Melody nod one came when my mother passed..hovered over a pine tree...*and helped us say goodbye...they are a blessing when there is distance involved in my opinion
Person X: there was an owl couple outside my balcony door the other night... perhaps they were mating
Unchained Melody two owls...that Is interesting.....can't say as i've ever seen two at once...must be hunting nesting sites for the winter larger is usually the female in predatory birds..i know it is with hawks..male is smaller of the two two owls...hmm....i wonder if that might have to do with illusion vs. reality and how we are affected by our choices through the past into the future..will have to research that one
Person X: there was a man walking his dog below me that pointed them out
Unchained Melody as i said..different cultures celebrate differently...
Person W: we have a big owl in our development he sits on teh mail boxes at night ya can walk right up to him
Unchained Melody wow..tahts a treasure..get me a pic!..lol .. prolly the female...i haven't researched which is the larger..male or female..but with hawks;the larger is usually the female

The Chronciles of Unchained Melody - Pt 5

Once again UM readily prove what little knowledge UM really has:
Person D i was stalked by a cougar when i was living in the cabin trut me, you don't want it to happen to you you know what do to if you are?
Person E: ope I do not think I wanna be stalked by a cougaR
Peson D: ake yourself big..like stand on your tiptoes, if you have a coat on, open it up wide, never look it in the eye and move slow if it attacks, curl into a ball try to hit it in the nose cover head n neck they go right for the neck i lived in a forest, you have to know what to do
Peson E: have been seriously thinking about hibernating
Unchained Melody its good thing to do now n then shed the residue of humanity..and just be....*awhile
Person F at lots of high fat foods first Unchained Melody I'm gonna do that in a few weeks ..myself....regroup

Unchained Melody :::just checked the roast....nice flavor...enjoy the cuban recipe's:::been fun to learn lotta lime's n lemons n garlic its very tender..cooked it slow all day long i'm lookin forward to dinner..butchies first day at work.thought i'd make her summin she loves .. not good with duck..kinda greasy..never learned to make it so its not that reminds me..wanted to make deviled eggs back from droppin eggs in water to boil i think butchie will like havin those for lunch tomorrow... she works out a lot..and needs the nurturing no time to cook for her lunches..so i do it <~doin what i can ..where i can Person C: wish I had a cook and a driver
Unchained Melody i'm a lil of all that..depending on whats needed i used to drive sum 1..she has no depth perception...and was so isolated while hubby worked ::Stretchin out in hammock:::::swayin::: i've been hangin out cooking most of the day..been a nice quiet day here sposed to snow and sleet toward midnite...so kinda just waitin for it long walks along the river are nice..but not that safe to be alone anymore i keep a huntin knife on me...helps out in a pinch with several situation..never know when yer gonna need it
Person C: economy is bad but we had a woman in my town imposing as a postal carrier she wiped out one womans account
Unchained Melody well...we have investors doin that ...a lot of people are losin everything...they worked all their lives for over that scam on wallstreet
Peson C: I dont know how she got access to someones account but it happened
Unchained Melody doesn't take much..a lot of identity info in the mail checks come in the mail..bank statements..all kinds of ways to get info that hellps em steal
Person C: they thought they had caught her but instead busted a meth lab
Unchained Melody well bravo..less of that is a good thing too .hate meth..hate all those dayem drugs that take our humanity from us (I must add here that this person frequently tries to tell others on line what drugs to take so this is baloney) brb..i hear the eggs boiling! AFK A FEW … I did a lot of hospice work in the 80's when the illness hit the communities..and a lot of educational colums in the military on HIV ...its amazing how many died alone
Person Z what i find loathing, are people that have Aids and dont tell anyone and deliberately spread it
Unchained Melody ....i agree..and now adays they can be charged with attempted premeditated murder …..ROFLMAO:Why can’t they have gay people in the army? Personally, I think they are just afraid of a thousand guys with M16s going, "Who'd you call a faggot?"
Drag is when a man wears everything a lesbian won't. author of quote unknown...LMAO
The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision.quoted lyn lavern LMAO … made a nice roast...in wine sauce..garlic;lime;lemon...*cuban recipe..very good marinated as it cooked...been in oven most of the day at a low temp...sure tastes good lets see also has cumin...chili powder and some red pepper on it i put the taters in with the sauce and they are soakin it up.....the smell is permeating the entire building..had the super up askin what i was makin..lol.she wants the recipe and just finished deviled eggs for butchies lunch tomorrow thinkin bout ordering steamed veggie dumplings from chinese rest up the street (I have to add here, why would someone who is supposedly cooking such a great meal want to order chinese dumplings??)
Person 1 love to marinate with paul newmans italian dressing for chicken
Unchained Melody i've tried coca cola marinade..its nice..i also tried beer...i prefer either..lol put tiny choppings of brocolli;onion..chili powder;garlic mayo and red pepper in the deviled eggs....:::this butchie likes it spicy!:::LOL…

The Chronciles of Unchained Melody Pt 4

More of the little miss know it all showing:
Unchained Melody:butchie went back to work today...limited duty..she's been chompin at the bit to get back..lol..damn shes cute in her uniform so glad to see her healing that knee butchie said to tell ya hiya gimp! ((top)) she goes back to work ...
Person A: I read that this change was supposed to happen w global warming...and the cold will move south..so we will get back to warmer winters dont you think it is winter like years ago like 1960 and '70's had snow up to the top of the house? this morning I shovelled so much snow on one snowbank that it was higher than me, lol - and I'm not short, lol how quickly we forget the fun we had in this type of snow. Now it is a chore I don't know about you - but as I get older - it takes more effort to do less, when I lived up north - it was worse - sometimes I couldn't even get out of my house the snow was so high
Unchained Melody::must be why the transitions of migration are moving north birds...animals....all are closer north than ever before..from what i've read

Unchained Melody:don't open anything ya don't know...there's been some real damage done to puters
Person A I never open stuff even if it's from friends if it's got all those fwd arrows delete probably 98% of e-mails I dont open downloads or forwards and I have written a terse letter or two to people about "blind copying" - geeze - hate getting my e-mail addy on all those lists
Unchained Melody:i'm not on my own puter or my own acct..i'm on a COPS computer and i wouldn't compromise her acct..for any reason but it seems others's would like to........bad choice..LMAO
Person A Dad sends the messiest e-mails out - 75% of it is e-mail addresses and those awful arrow thingies - I've tried to teach him on numerous occasions to clean them up - to no avail, lol
Unchained Melody:he must not realize the risks
Person A I have explained about viruses, spam, phishing - he thinks that involves a rod and net, lol he's 84 so I just think he doesn't want to know so I don't open his e-mails - but he tests me , lol

Person 4: where are you Unchained Melody
Unchained Melody still in the nyc area..till after the holidays hon
Person 4: oh i see i know sometimes you are in atlanta, have a good xmas
Unchained Melody yeah i go back an forth a lot..* will be this way for awhile..i spose....till i'm needed elsewhere i drove up this time..had some things to bring butchie from my sword collection so decided better to drive..cheaper too in the long haul i'm hopin those prices stay low....long drive back after holidays then onto either kansas or colorado....have a few requests to tend (I must add here that this person travels so much because she gets kicked out of every place she goes cos she won’t work) its really wet n cold in oregon
Person 1: where was that Unchained Melody
Unchained Melody nyc area Person 1...i'm here till after the holidays
Person 1 nyc 90 minute to Woodstock
Unchained Melody yes Person 1....been there...nice lil town got a new tye dyed t-shirt while there..lol i love tye dyed stuff...especially sarongs which i wear most of the time ..when its warm enough to ::checkin out turkey platter beltbuckles at rodeos::.....yup...I've been to texas..LOL dallas/ftworth for a few months...loved it oh and south of houston for several months;few years back...galveston was kewl...cept when hurricanes come thru..lol but then...i'd take a hurricane over the HERicanes i've come across (I add here that this person has lived a lot of places and been run out of those places for not working and just using up other peoples money)

The Chronicles of Unchained Melody - Pt 3

What was said:
Unchained Melody: was watchin the news last night..do you think we're lookin at a clinton/kennedy ticket in 2012? and i think those two would kick some azz in office carolyn kennedy is after the senate seat in NY...which lines her up for election in 2012....its the same senate seat that robert kennedy satit would force full disclosure on many issues to get those two in there
Person 1: but the Kennedy's backed OBama not Hillary
Person 2: thinking hillary... might leave Bill then...iffin she hooks up with her lol
Unchained Melody: Person 1.....that was then...this will be future they may let obama run out the 8 years even..the bring it on its gonna be interesting ride...lol

What it means: it means that one person who watches a news cast and does NOT pay close attention to what is said can distort the simpliest of comments and then get even more uninformed persons to expand the distortion to a point that the original comment in the news cast is not recognizable anymore. That's what happens when you get a person who thinks they know it all and wants to be the CENTER of attention in a conversation because they think they are so all important. I guess this is where you say "let em climb moot be harm none" ROFL

The Chronicles of Unchained Melodty - Pt 2

What was said: (this conversation started as talk about OJ and quickly descended into a ridiculous banter on race in jails among other things - typos by those involved have not been corrected )

Person 1:oj needs to be in prison for the rest of his frigging life it will be amazing to me if someone in prison doesn't try to kill him....
Person 2: he finally got his and he deserves it
Person 1:ya know prisoners have a thing about killin
Person 2: i saw a news comment last night ...three different news folks said they thought he would be idolized in prison ?
Person 1:ya know there is a racist in that prison who will want him dead... i would bet
Person 2: would like to believe race would not enter into retting rid of that bad germ !!!
Person 1: i'd think theres at least 1 loon in that prison that would think killing OJ would make him a hero of some sort
Person 1: agree buttttttt that is a reality of life.... racism does exist.. and especially in prison
Person 3: today i feel our city has stepped a step backwards they opened the first all black school in toronto i feel that this only opens us all up to more racism the blacks wanted thisPerson 1: but then i don't know if he is out in GP or if he is isolated
Person 4: is he in a general population prison or a country club prison?
Person 2 : if i am not mistaken he is in gen population
Person 1: wow Person 4... that is surprising
Person 4: yes very much so Person 1 and i must say i am against it
Person 2: well Person 4 dunno that seems like reverse discrimination eh ?
Person 4: i feel so
Person 3: well, we have catholic schools, jewish schools..
Person 2: just like the all Negro College and Fund that exists here in the US >..
Person 4: we are already a minority in our own country you dont see many white people anymore at least in toronto
Person 2 : but we could NOT have a white college ... ??? interesting
Unchained Melody: exclusivity in reverse...hmm.....interesting.....maybe the community wants to focus on heritage related teachings...I see no issue that isn't human created in this choice
Person 2: theres black colleges
Person 4: i dont feel that is their reasoning
UnChained Melody: they want to focus on the blacks getting power and special concessions in the schools and i feel that is wrong
Person 3: was there reasoning for a black school for kids that the kids werent getting an education?
Person 4: i am not really sure what the reasoning is just saw on tv that it is opening today guess more will come to light later
Person 3: how many black teachers are there compared to white teachers in public schools?
Unchained Melody: Person 4.....i've seen so much discrimination in my lifetime.....all around the u.s.a.......so this does not surprise me...and I guess we'll have to wait n see what evolves of it before placing fear into the equation
Person 5: shoot..one of the best colleges in this area started as a all black teachers college...
Person 4 : this is in ontario the US
Unchained Melody : i for one...take issue with violence in schools....and it 'seems' to me..that teachers..whatever race they may be..are undergoing HUGE challenges just to keep order in the class rooms
Person 4: yes Unchained Melody in our schools just this year alone there have been several murders
Person 6: well yeah Unchained Melody and it has been dangerous for years hence Live was hurt by a student ruined her life
Unchained Melody: i also feel that the streets aren't safe of ANY PERSON OF ANY RACE when we do not teach CHILDREN of any race that violence isn't the answer nor the purpose
Person 6: at the peak of her career
Unchained Melody: exactly Person 6.......bless her for her strength
Person 2: Person 6 that is very sad
Person 6: yes it is and she is in your area Person 2 i found her
Person 2: the student ? would love for her to see what she did btu i can only assume she would not care
Person 2: yes
Person 4: i was not a teacher but i loved my job and my work injuries did not sit well with my employer so they did everything to break me down they say the compensation board goes out of their way to help injured workers
Person 6: nuttin to do but learn to live with it all
Person 4: then why dont they go out of their way to serve their own injured employee
Unchained Melody: its a sad world ...has been for awhile..when it comes to whats happening to the strength that is our diversity....seems we cannot or will not embrace it
Person 2: well Person 4 face it scholl boards have no money work comp treated her like the criminal
Person 4: i did not work for a school i worked for 35 years at the workers compensation board
Unchained Melody: there's no money in curing this...the money is in the crime and the punishment ...seems to be so in all areas of this country's dynamics....
Person 4: and trust me i know how lives feels i got a double whammy i work for them and i am an injured worker
Person 2 : Person 6... have you been able to establish if that individual is upstanding in the community now ?
Person 6: i have not
Person 2: aha ....
Person 6: but i know she is still in the area hell i even got her address
Unchained Melody : that would be interesting to find out.....good point.
Person 6: not to me i do not trust myself
Person 1: how long ago was the incident Person 6
Person 6: 10 yrs
Person 2: ahh Person 6... send it to me in email and i will drive by ... just see at least what the area looks like
Person 6 : k will dig it out her name is vatrina perry
Person 7: first 7 yrs at group home i never had to cuff or mace anyone last 7 was almost daily thing we had to build new faciliyt with 2 isolation rooms none in the 1st i attrubiated to new drugs,gangs and breakdown of society as a whole

The Chronicles of Unchained Melody - Pt 1

The foloowing is the first installment of "The Chronciles of Unchained Meloday" - one only has to read to see the personality of "UM" (as "IT" will be referred to)....an insecure person who has to be the center of attention, a true "know it all" who has no clue, if you've done it ...UM has done it first or better... if you're sick ...UM has had the illness even worse ....

Unchained Melody: I gotta get to star bucks..does anyone know if they sell gift certificates? ... .i wanna get it some ..gonna be part of x-mas present..doesn't ahve to have $ all the time for coffee...buy beans at costco ...and grind them ourself .....their brand...I don't particularly enjoy STARBUCKS coffee as much as I do... 8 o'clock brand....but i will drink it if its whats on the menu......hard to enjoy a cup of coffee ya can't afford...lol i find STARBUCKS bitter....so i lean hard toward 8 0'clock..french roast..which is a lil more mellow ...i do think tho..that those who enjoy starbucks are more inclined toward strong caffeine jobs....they need it!..i am learnin to enjoy expresso..the womon downstairs makes it for me.....i love it...cos it's free ,,,,Namaste person 1 ,,,,,, I will kill anyone that says "namaste" to me again ....Unchained Melody:well person 1 THATS a bit extreme....and just don't speak to me..cuz i say it all the time....beta blockers help with vision ...i think thats what they gave person 2 for her eyes....::been so long ago;; i forget::so you are creating the illusion that there "COULD BE" pills person 3..and or there MIGHT be issues in the negative sense.....hmmm...that speaks loudly of paranoia...:just observation:....sounds like weakened or no established boundaries within the relationship you are tending ....
I have to say this person has the whackiest conversations I have ever read on line ....all you have to do is go to a STARBUCKS store or on line and you can find out if they have gift certificates so this was obviously a ploy to try to impress someone but it just looked as stupid as it was.... as for the beta blockers.... gosh non medical people giving out medical advice really is against the law..... and for NAMASTE.... well I guess I'm not the only one who sees there that pretense ..... as for paraniod ... this person is the definition of that term.....

The value of LIFE

What was said: anyone got any remedies for a hardened hairball in a cat's colon..so we can avoid the cost of surgery..other than cod liver oil????????? been givin it to the cat since i got here:and its now in trouble ..took to vet yesterday..just couple x-rays and a shot or two was 533$ .,.... and its lookin like surgery if we can't get this dang hard hairball to pass out of its colon gonna cost even more..... gonna try cod liver oil again....it MIGHT work...after a few days of fasting..no food...a shot of hydration under skin MIGHT keep him dry enough to let the oil work its job on his colon .... this really suxs....this could really run up the costs of surgery .... know what to do when a horse gets a dry ball of veggitation caught....::::::slappin on arm to shoulder gloves;grabbin lard::::::don't look:::turn yer head n cough::: ::chucklin::: oh wut a visual THAT was ....its freakin HUGE..and dreadlocked;we know its in the colon now..so its beyond his ability to cough it up ...the shot is for nauseau and to keep him hydrated..has nothing to do with the actual hairball..seems its been ther a long time..and he's nto been able to move it .... 533$....for xrays and shots and blood work..... was gonna pass out when he told me the cost
What it means: it means that the word of a stranger on the internet is valued more than the word of a trained vet as long as money can be saved .... it means that the cat's life and suffering is not worth the money to pay for educated advice from the professional who KNOWS what to do for these problems ... it means that no matter what this person says MONEY DOES MATTER to "it".... it means that the suffering of an animal is of such low concern as opposed to how much money can be saved by NOT doing the right thing for the animal ... it means no matter how spiritual this person says "it" is ... life is of little value compared to the pocketbook... this says a LOT about the true nature and attitude of this person.

TOO dang funny

What was said ... woke up this mornin...butchie was so bundled up in the covers.....
What it means ... when two women are in the same bed and one hogs all the covers rather than snuggle with the other woman in the bed, it means the other woman isn't worth snuggling ... in fact ...probably would prefer the other woman not even be in the same bed

ROFL

This AIN'T spirituality

What was said : " elder speaks; in reference to CLONES::: "If the damn thing devoted half it's time toward embodying the ideals IT proclaims to expect in others;it might climb up OUT of its ignorance" ....all present;were laughing too hard to respond to the statement.. "
What that means: this simply means that the person who wrote that obviously spends way too much time worrying about someone having a screen name vaguely similar to theirs and this someone professes to be a spiritual being but it's obvious from the writing that the person is NOT spiritual at all just a very insecure, self-centered, sad shell of something that once was called human but is now far less because IT dwells in envy, jealousy, anger, hate, and deceit.
The facts remain... if the person complaining spent as much time practicing being spiritual, IT wouldn't have time to complain so much. ROFL

The dumb keep marching on

Before a person goes "shooting off their mouth", they should REALLY do more than watch one MSNBC video... and if they call themselves a writer, they also need to learn to spell (shown in bold blue italics) before they go off rambling about ANY THING! The interesting thing here is that it's not some cultures - it's just ONE culture that this has been documented about.
What was said: " :::to each their own identity:::: strong in their expression of authentic self:::shrug;::live n let live:::diversity is their strength..wears western shirts jeans and stetson....justin boots.......and i love em.. also like wearing my sarongs....*most of the time...some cultures believe there are 5 genders....male; female; bisexual; female leaning toward male; and male leaning toward female ;identities expression..some think its unkewl to be butch on butch.....and others thats all they want...alogn with being femme on femme.....i think its dayem funny to see the stereotyping goin on in our lifestyle ;just as it does in heterosexual society... anima...animas......yes...both gender influenced identity and self expression..femme in appearance; usually....with a butch rising.....LOL...ty (person) for pointin that out to me::chucklin::: ah the memories... discriptive words....are NOT labels unless ya put em on ... but hey...we all have a language to use :::::swayin::::: there's so many different ways to 'label' something that doesn't bother others...are ya a mother?..are ya an aunt...are ya a mechanic...a seamstress....are ya more butch than femme in appearance...are ya a tweener?... its all discriptive.....:just how i see it:.. Label>teacher,secretary,journalist,cook,waitress,smoker,driver, caregiver, therapist, painter, femme ..... all discriptive WORDS .. feel we all have preferences: some of us just don't OWN them..because of the social environments raised in and how they've been 'taught' to define themselves...but again..live and let live self expression has many variables"

The facts: Only ONE society "suggests" that they "might" believe in five genders as explained in the following (and the five genders are properly described below - and you will see that there is no reference to "female leaning toward male; and male leaning toward female":
Kate Bornestein writes that "Women couldn't be oppressed if there was no such thing as 'women.' Doing away with gender is key to the doing away with patriarchy." Anne Falso-Sterling has an article entitled "The Five SExes: Why Male and Female Are Not Enough."

Dale O'Leary, The Gender Agenda: Redefining Equality; On the first page of her brief conclusion, Dale O'Leary summarizes what U.N. representatives believe that the world needs free contraception and legal abortion to start with; sex ed courses to encourage experimentation among children, and to teach them that homosexuality is normal and both sexes are the same; and the discrediting of all religions which oppose their agenda. .... It is a useful instrument to expose the aims and machinations of a strange new breed of people - people who believe in five genders, male, female, homosexual male, homosexual female, and bisexual.

Joan Ackner (The Gendered Society Reader) believes gendering occurs in at least five different interacting social processes: 1)The construction of divisions along the lines of gender, such as those which are produced by labour, power, family, the state, even allowed behaviours and locations in physical space. 2)The construction of symbols and images such as language, ideology, dress and the media, that explain, express and reinforce, or sometimes oppose, those divisions. 3)Interactions between men and women, women and women and men and men which involve any form dominance and submission. Conversational theorists, for example, have studied the way in which interruptions, turn taking and the setting of topics re-create gender inequality in the flow of ordinary talk. 4) The way in which the preceding three processes help to produce gendered components of individual identity. i.e. the way in which they create and maintain an image of a gendered self. 5) Gender is implicated in the fundamental, ongoing processes of creating and conceptualising social structures.

http://www.powells.com/biblio?isbn=9780495092803
Challenging Gender Norms (07 Edition) by Sharyn Graham Davies
Publisher Comments:
As part of the Case Studies in Cultural Anthropology series, edited by George Spindler and Janice E. Stockard, Sharyn Graham brings us CHALLENGING GENDER NORMS: THE FIVE GENDERS OF INDONESIA. This case study explores the Bugis ethnic group, native to the Indonesian island of Sulawesi, that recognizes five gender categories rather than the two acknowledged in most societies. The Bugis acknowledge three sexes (female, male, hermaphrodite), four genders (women, men, calabai, and calalai), and a fifth meta-gender group, the bissu. This ethnography presents individuals' stories, opinions and deliberations, grounding discussions of how gendered identities are constructed in a rapidly changing cultural milieu. The rich ethnographic material contained in this book challenges two types of Western theory: a) queer theory, which tends to focus on sexuality, and b) feminist theory, which tends to focus on social gender enactment. Neither theory is well-equipped for articulating the complexities of multiple gender identities and a multifarious gender system. By unraveling social negotiations and examining both individual embodiment and the impact of global forces on localized identities, the book proposes a new theory of gender which incorporates appreciation of variously gendered subjectivities.
Book News Annotation:
Davies (anthropology, Auckland U. of Technology) describes gender diversity among the Bugis, the largest ethnic group in South Sulawesi, Indonesia. After exploring the concept of gender in general and whether it is considered important in their society, she explains that there are five genders in their culture, including masculine man, feminine woman, masculine female, feminine male, and androgynous shamans. Certain characteristics define them, such as lifestyle, behavior, clothing, social and ritual roles, sexual practices, and erotic desires. Her ethnographic research consists of interviews, conversations, and observations. In addition, she considers gender and biological sex, bodies, identity, sexuality, and marriage.
Synopsis:
CHALLENGING GENDER NORMS: THE FIVE GENDERS OF INDONESIA. This case study in cultural anthropology explores the Bugis ethnic group, native to the Indonesian island of Sulawesi, which recognizes five gender categories rather than the two acknowledged in most societies. This ethnography presents individuals' stories, opinions, and deliberations and proposes a new theory of gender which incorporates appreciation of variously gendered subjectivities.

http://www.meridianmagazine.com/ideas/010420gender.html
Radical Theorists and Policy Makers Promote Idea of "Five Genders". Most people assume the word "gender" is directly interchangeable with the word "sex," and that there are only two "genders", male and female. Most people will be very surprised to hear that some say there are more than two "genders." Five years ago at the UN Habitat Conference (Istanbul, 1996), radical non-governmental organizations aggressively promoted "five genders." Though hotly debated at Istanbul, the "five genders" lost. Even so, the attempt to stretch the definition of "gender" continues unabated within the halls of the UN, on college campuses and even in city governments. Radical theorists decided long ago that the word "sex" was too confining. "Sex" is based in nature, determined by the chromosomes and almost always confirmed by bodily characteristics. [In rare instances some children are born with indeterminate sexual characteristics. This condition is frequently called "hermaphrodism."] Because "sex" is limited to only male and female and is based in nature, social tinkerers determined to change the word to something more malleable and so "gender" was born. The idea is that "gender" is a social construct and can be changed through education and law.According to its promoters, the "five genders" are heterosexual men, heterosexual women, homosexual men, homosexual women, and transsexuals (those who have had sex change operations). To promote this idea, six years ago at a conference in Houston, Texas, something called the "International Bill of Gender Rights" (http://inquirer.gn.apc.org/GDRights.html) was inaugurated. According to its framers the International Gender Bill of Rights are "universal rights which can be claimed and exercised by every human being."Underscoring the ten rights under the Gender Bill of Rights is the idea that "all human beings have the right to define their own gender identity regardless of chromosomal sex, genitalia, assigned birth sex, or initial gender role." It is their belief that while "sex" is inborn what counts is gender, something that is chosen and must be protected in law.The ten rights enumerated in the Gender Bill of Rights are "the right to free expression of gender identity, the right to secure and retain employment and to receive just compensation, the right of access to gendered space and participation in gendered activity, the right to control and change one's body, the right to competent medical and professional care, the right to freedom from psychiatric diagnosis and treatment, the right to sexual expression, the right to form committed, loving relationships and enter into marital contracts, the right to conceive, bear, or adopt children, and the right to nurture and have custody of children and to exercise parental capacity."Many people will understand these ideas to be on the far frontier of social policy and in many respects those people are correct. Even so, many governmental bodies are already beginning to promote these ideas. The "five genders" lost in the UN, but the debate continues there. And just recently the city council of San Francisco ordered that sex change operations may be paid out of city health benefits.
Copyright - C-FAM (Catholic Family & Human Rights Institute). Permission granted for unlimited use. Credit required.

This is why only LICENSED legal professionals can give legal advice

What was said: thanks to those who have stepped forward to stop hate against diversity, who are helpgin to take legal action against cyber bullies ..such as those identified as 'clones'..stalkers and predators online.
(fyi) clones; the use of slanderous screen names used to target a victim..it should be noted that online abuse may also include the circulation emails;logged and altered chat; Im's that are also altered and also the profile of the clone is sometimes used to direct inflammatory and abusive remarks at the intended victim of the assault. clones are an on going problem online and may be used as criminal intent evidence against the abuser.
....please continue to forward all emails and IM's recieved or circulated by others or directly from clones, stalkers or predators....
continued committment will assist in bringing a stop to the cowardly assaults online.......and btw...while news articles about Lori Drew's and Megan Meier, speak of a teen who commited suicide over the abuse...please NOTE ;Lori Drew is a 49 year old "ADULT" who is charged with the criminal violations online......however it is categorized....it is 'morally' and 'legally' wrong as news articles reveal..
and for those of you who encourage this abuse..you are helping circulate the 'evidence' be aware, you have made a 'informed choice to do so'...or think its fun..."feed the Baboon and Watch it Spit" "it is always best to allow the perpatrator to feel like it is 'safe' in its pursuit of criminal activities over a distinct amount of time online...this allows for authorities to build a defense and collect the necessary incriminating evidence of the truth..which can come in the form of emails...Im's...ITP addresses and real time activities of the cyber stalker and bully ....those leads eventually reveal the thread of truth in the mass of information..from that...all will be held accountable"
*volunteer task force for stopping online predators...September 2008.

What's wrong with what was said: First of all, there is no such definition of a screen name - obviously this person needs to read up a bit more. Second, attorueys know that forwarded correspondence is easily altered so they do NOT rely on such material. Third, there is no information on line or otherwise that states anything about "clones" and online problems. Apparently this person has created their own legal delusion. Fourth, cyberbullying according to all information available MUST involve a person under the age of 18. Fifth, the expression "feed the Baboon and Watch it Spit" is in an of itself cyberbullying as this person is trying to define the act. Sixth, the person states that authorites "build a defense" against a "perpatrator". Obviously this person is not a lawyer or this person would know that authorites do NOT build a defense for someone they are trying to prosecute (besides the fact that prepetrator is misspelled).

I could go on about the misinformation in this person's rant but needless to say, this person doesn't have a clue what they are talking about and is NOT an attorney and therefore should NOT be giving legal advice - especially in an online format where it's easy to document the person's errors.

No longer a free nation thanks to Obama

Here's what Obama had FIRST - he was going to REQUIRE that all children and all college students do MANDATORY community service.










Here's what he has now

The Obama Administration will call on Americans to serve in order to meet the nation’s challenges. President-Elect Obama will expand national service programs like AmeriCorps and Peace Corps and will create a new Classroom Corps to help teachers in underserved schools, as well as a new Health Corps, Clean Energy Corps, and Veterans Corps. Obama will call on citizens of all ages to serve America, by setting a goal that all middle school and high school students do 50 hours of community service a year and by developing a plan so that all college students who conduct 100 hours of community service receive a universal and fully refundable tax credit ensuring that the first $4,000 of their college education is completely free. Obama will encourage retiring Americans to serve by improving programs available for individuals over age 55, while at the same time promoting youth programs such as Youth Build and Head Start.

The original was changed after the webmaster and Obama received THOUSANDS of emails and much legal advice letting him know that he can NOT "require" any American citizen to be FORCED to do community service - not even CHILDREN. He has changed the wording but the intent is the same - his goal is to REQUIRE children to be endoctrinated into his view of the word the same as Hitler did with his youth group. The method is different but the end result will be the same. Obama is trying to brainwash children so they follow him and his socialist movement without question. We can not stand by and let this go with out challange. Write your Senators and Congressman. Write your Governors and your Mayors. Write evey politician you can find to write. Tell them to STOP OBAMA because we do NOT need our children used as ploys for one man's obsessive belief that he is SAVIOR of not only American ..... but the WORLD.

This is the man the masses call MESSIAH. Get a grip people. The socialist dictator that he is finally is showing through and the people of American are going to pay dearly for falling for his "rock star" baloney.

FACT CHECK

What was said .."if we could censure attendance in a public chat it would be a different story..reality DiCTATES we cannot discriminate ;but hey.....discernment is a choice we all make of our own preferences....will maintain that we all have the iggy button an can wipe our screens clear of those we do not wish to read or type to....and that's where the power and answers are...personal discernment* ...
I think it would be great if we put 'em on iggy they can't read or log us either..but eh..guess THAT option fell thru the cracks ..sure would end a buncha b.s. online wouldn't it ....believes in freedom of speech....in your OWN SKIN...otherwise yer just a clone and a fake"
The truth..what this person means is ... this person wants to be the WORLD's censor and determine who people can or can not chat with, who is or is not allowed to enter a chat room, what chat room a person can or can not participate in, what a "real person" is, who is a "real personn" and who is not, and make sure every one bows down to this person. SORRY but the role of MESSIAH was just filled by Barack Obama ... and we all know "There can be only ONE".


What was said "most don't know that their Air conditioners..lawn mowers an other products were invented by humans of color"
The truth http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawn_mower The first lawn mower was invented by English engineer Edwin Beard Budding in 1827.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Air_conditioning In 1820, British scientist and inventor Michael Faraday discovered that compressing and liquefying ammonia could chill air when the liquefied ammonia was allowed to evaporate. In 1842, Florida physician John Gorrie used compressor technology to create ice, which he used to cool air for his patients in his hospital in Apalachicola, Florida.

What was said "The term split feather is used to describe the twisted heritage of someone who does not have proof of their ancestory....has been orphaned from his or her people either by genetics, choice , rejection or other life experience..:
The truth http://www.dlncoalition.org/dln_issues/native_child_family_rights.htm
"....children known as "Split Feathers", the thousands plucked wholesale from their families and tribes and placed in transcultural adoption during the 50s, 60s and 70s. "

What was said ... "move around a lot...i think i still like the high desert the best ...can't see a reason to live in a state that has hurricanes and expesne to evacuate every season"
The truth people live where they want to live for a lot of reasons and just because some one doesn't "get it" as to why does NOT make the person's choice of where tolive WRONG and it's flat out offensive for some one who does NOT have a REAL home because they do NOT have a REAL job to go off on others like that!

What was said ...I have relatives in canada...not been up to see them in a LONG time....i remember the snow..and stay away...i whine over a few inches of snow....i had my fill in wisconsin....i loved arizona...nice in idaho....but not where i'd wanna stay long....have lived in TX....Arkansas.... GA.... n lots of other places...i'm near nyc for now
The truth and supposedly related to royalty in England til they got caught in that lie too and travels so much because the person refuses to get a REAL job but prefers to take from others until others realize they are being scammed ,,, then it's on to another place and another person to scam

What was said....feel it is best to evolve the relationship.....only thing ya CAN depend on is CHANGE will Happen...hard to shed the past and not slay the future...sort n toss n realign and watch for red flags and this time thru....LISTEN TO THE RED FLAGS......if ya go into it with expectations.....you'll be disappointed..best to let it unfold day by day and keep yourself informed of whats the truth and whats the illusion......ya invest and poof..they walk away like it meant nothing at all....suxs to be in that one too...meaningless relationships do not exist...every thing we do MEANS something to someone somewhere..that IS why its important to keep our choices aligned in pure intent;but thats how i see it
The truth evolution means the person being scammed is catching on and so time to lower expectations and start looking for some one new to scam things are only meaningless when the person themselves is meaningless